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one SST term, several students remarked about the seeming insanity of a common occurrence. They briefly would be alone in a publico sitting comfortably in the front bucket seat, when another passenger-to-be would finger the car to a halt. Then, even though the back seat was empty, the new rider would open the front door and pile nearly onto the lap of the student. The assumption of some of the SSTers was that this was, at best, an attempt at undesired physical intimacy, or, at worst, a sign of Dominican senselessness. At the group's weekly processing session, students and leaders sought to understand why this practice was occurring. Most students clearly understood that for their Dominican hosts physical contact with friends or strangers was not a disvalue, so that was one mitigating explanation. But few had thought through the truth that emerged from the conversation: of traffic patterns and the dangers of exiting and entering cars, all passengers were required to exit publicos roadway. That meant the person who sat on the student's lap would have inconvenienced the publico's of the car, where he eventually would have been pressed against the driver's side door. For him to exit the car, especially if he were going a short distance, all of the other passengers, who by then would have filled the back seat, would have needed to get out before he could exit. His act, then, in scrunching into the front seat, was sensitive, appropriate, and eminently rational. The student who brought the case to the group was bowled over. What had been senselessness had been transformed through seeing from another unconsidered perspective, and the chastening which came through the revelation carried over into the remainder of her Dominican experience, as
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